But while I'm usually joking (with the ever present kernel of truth), occasionally I start to fully buy in. And I think it makes others wonder if I'm really that lazy/self-conscious/awkward/depraved/slow/etc.
And I'm not really. Except for the awkwardness. I am every bit as awkward as I say I am.
Lately, though, it strikes me that it is a disservice to myself but more importantly to others if I choose to dwell in the place of the things I fail at rather than using the gifts I do have and being grateful for them. There's this one quote...Oh WAIT...I bet it's on Pinterest in pretty .jpg form...
Yup:
So here are some things--by the grace of God--that I'm actually pretty good at:
1. I love my kids. They get a surplus of hugs and kisses. I truly want to know who they are. I'm not perfect, but I apologize when I've wronged them.
2. My kids are cute. Genetically, of course, which I was 50% involved with. But I think they are sharp dressers. Who dresses them? Their mama. And not only that, I'm totally frugal about shopping for them. I'm like a consignment/thrift store ninja.
3. I make hot breakfast involving eggs nearly every morning for the whole fam. Yeah, like it's the effin' 1950s or something. I make healthy meals, usually from scratch, nearly every night. It takes a lot of planning and work. I exhaustively research optimal ways of eating and recipes to support my findings.
4. I have really long-term friendships that have matured and evolved over the years, and I enjoy fostering those relationships. I even think I manage to encourage others on occasion.
5. I'm a pretty decent writer. I hate even typing that, but the facts are that a.) I used to earn my living (and it was a decent one) from my writing and b.) I get compliments on my blog from people who have no reason to compliment me. It's hard for me to see beyond my need for improvement, but apparently I'm not too shabby.
6. I share our home with others on a pretty frequent basis. I work hard to make it a pretty, pleasant, neat(ish), and welcoming place.
7. Even though I would naturally be a hermit, I intentionally make time for people in my life and prioritize community.
I don't say any of these things to make you feel bad (if you do) because I guarantee that you are rockin' your own thangs that I struggle with. Maybe you should make your own list. If you need help getting started and I know you personally, I can probably help because...oh!
8. I have a knack for telling people clearly and honestly what their strengths are.
BOOM!
And you're welcome.
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